How girls find a good lover - how to select your husband / lover / partner for life ??

Many points have already been published and are valid for both
girls searching a man for life
men searching for a lover girl for eternity

girls have to be picky
to be pregnant from the wrong one feels and is like a disaster lasting years or a lifetime !!
men as well are tricky and hide their ego and weakness behind walls of tricks and silly ego-games

when you see the one you find attractive
test his true love FIRST
look what he is doing FOR others
look how he is treating OTHERS - foreigners to him
look how much he cares FOR any other person, culture, country or all creation
is what he has the gift of his father / mother / others or the result of his own productive work - his own creation from scratch or a mere disguise/repacking of other people's hard work ??
how much of his income does he spend for HIS lifestyle and how little / much does he spend for the wellbeing of OTHERS

a truly loving husband always has a VERY substantial share of love, resources, time, work and money FOR others in his heart

a man however who only carries credit cards or ATM cards obviously is used to seldom or never spontaneously share or help

a man spending substantial amounts for his lifestyle, cloths, car, gadgets, vacation, etc has little left to truly love and help OTHERS

a man who bargains ab out price
a man who just "gets by" in life tries to get the maximum benefit FROM others for the least effort from his part - hence he is STINGY in all aspects of life - toward you, his children and all his loved ones as well

such men are poor lovers and may never satisfy your need and hunger for true sincere divine love

look what a man HAS already achieved in life
did or does he work with his body, mind and hands
or does he let others do the dirty work

does he reuse or modify products or services MADE BY OTHERS or does he create from scratch all his own work ??
is he merely a RE-seller or re-packer of other people's services or products
or does he really do, invent and create out of his very own useful services and products ??

chose the one whose life is mainly the product of his very own efforts
a man free from his parents
a man free from other people's influence
a man strong enough to DO what FEELS right even if all society or culture may think differently
a man who is can can be loyal to HIS heart rather than loyal to his employer, bank and income
a man who loves to love and is ready to sacrifice a higher salary for a more loving, harder, dirtier or more useful job

a man who fears never can make happy
a man who fears never can carry you home to God
a man who follows orders rather than being his own boss is a weak slave of stronger ones and thus a poor lover

a man who wants to possess you
a man who wants to marry you
...
is a man with a weak love - hence he wants to attache you by legal means rather than attract you by the power of his true love

a truly loving man is the one whose aura makes you feel GOOD
an aura that you can actually FEEL whenever you are within the same house or room
an aura that gives you the feeling of security, coziness, being loved,
an aura that makes you feel comfortable being who you are - a female girl
an aura that satisfies your needs of true love by making you relaxed, happy and gives you the "butterflies" all over - inside and outside - to FEEL loved by him

be demanding and never accept any excuses nor any "later"
a man always has to prove love from the very first seconds and minutes
be ready to test his love be ready to love be ready to BE loved
instantly and fully

a man who wants to use condom or any similar method of "contraception" rejects any possibility to FALL in love - and postpones any serious decision of his mind AND heart to a later time ... later may be a few years, decades or after death!!
the right one is ready for TRUE and FULL love at once from the very first second
love at first glance from he bottom of HIS heart
to the center of YOUR heart ...

and what about YOUR heart-decision ?? NOW or later or never ?? if love is what you want
then love is what you need to accept AND GIVE as well
from the first seconds of course
ALL or NOTHING at all
NOW or never
!!!

everything else is but a waste of time
a waste of time means a waste of fun-time
a waste of time also means a waste of resources of many kind

we all have but ONE life to live, to love, to enjoy and to have fun
HERE and NOW
and that ONE life may last eternally and thus far beyond this physical lifetime

a day without true love
a day at the side of a wrong one - man or girl
ALWAYS is a WASTED day

Unless you love yourself you cannot love anybody

Unless you love yourself you cannot love anybody, it is impossible, because a man who is not in love with himself cannot be in love with anybody. If you are in love with yourself, only then can your overflowing love reach somebody.

A man who has not loved himself will hate himself, and if you yourself hate yourself, how can you love anybody? You will hate others also. You can only pretend. And when you cannot love yourself, how do you expect others to love you? Everyone is condemned in his own eyes. The whole moralistic teaching gives you only one thing: techniques of self condemnation -- how to condemn yourself, how you are bad, a criminal, guilty, a sinner.

Christianity says that your being a sinner is not a question of what you do/ you are born a sinner. It is not a question of whether you do some sin or not; no, you are a born sinner. Man is born in sin. Adam, the first man, committed the sin, and you are descendants. The sin has been committed, nothing can be done. Now it cannot be undone, and you are born into sin -- Adam's sin.

If you are born in sin, how can you love yourself? If your very being is guilt, how can you love yourself? And if you cannot love yourself, you cannot love anybody. The love must happen at home first -- you are the home -- and only when it overflows can it reach to others. And when it overflows, it overflows into your acts, into whatsoever you do. Whether you paint or make a shoe or anything -- just cleaning the street -- whatsoever you do, if you are in deep love, if you are in deep love with yourself, it flows into everything you do. It flows even when you are not doing anything. It goes on flowing, it becomes your very existence, and then nothing is boring.

Mwana Mfalme William kuoa

William, ambaye ni mrithi wa pili wa kiti cha ufalme, atafunga ndoa mwakani, katika mwaka ambao ungeadhimisha miaka 30 ya ndoa ya wazazi wake.

Wawili hao waliweka ahadi ya uchumba mwezi Oktoba nchini Kenya, wakati wakiwa katika mapumziko.


William na Kate walianza kuwa na mahusiano miaka minane iliyopita, wakati wakisoma katika chuo kikuu cha cha Mtakatifu Andrews huko Fife, ambapo pia waliishi katika nyumba moja.

Ndoa hiyo imetangazwa katika taarifa fupi iliyotolewa na Clarence House.

Taarifa

Taarifa hiyo imesema: "Mwana Mfalme wa Wales, ana furaha ya kutangaza ndoa ya mwanae, Mwana Mfalme William atakayofunga na Bi Catherine Middleton.

"Harusi itafanyika wakati wa majira ya joto ya mwaka 2011, mjini London. Taarifa zaidi kuhusu harusi hiyo zitatangazwa baadaye.

"Mwana Mfalme William amemfahamisha Malkia na ndugu wengine wa karibu.




"Mwana Mfalme William pia ameomba ruhusa kutoka kwa baba wa Bi Kate.

"Baada ya kufunga ndoa, wawili hao wataishi kaskazini mwa Wales, ambapo Mwana Mfalme William ataendelea na kazi katika jeshi la Anga la Uingereza Royal Air Force."

Top 10 Reasons to Smile

1. Smiling Makes Us Attractive
We are drawn to people who smile. There is an attraction factor. We want to know a smiling person and figure out what is so good. Frowns, scowls and grimaces all push people away -- but a smile draws them in (avoid these smile aging habits to keep your smile looking great).



2. Smiling Changes Our Mood
Next time you are feeling down, try putting on a smile. There's a good chance you mood will change for the better. Smiling can trick the body into helping you change your mood.
3. Smiling Is Contagious
When someone is smiling they lighten up the room, change the moods of others, and make things happier. A smiling person brings happiness with them. Smile lots and you will draw people to you.
4. Smiling Relieves Stress
Stress can really show up in our faces. Smiling helps to prevent us from looking tired, worn down, and overwhelmed. When you are stressed, take time to put on a smile. The stress should be reduced and you'll be better able to take action.
5. Smiling Boosts Your Immune System
Smiling helps the immune system to work better. When you smile, immune function improves possibly because you are more relaxed. Prevent the flu and colds by smiling.
6. Smiling Lowers Your Blood Pressure
When you smile, there is a measurable reduction in your blood pressure. Give it a try if you have a blood pressure monitor at home. Sit for a few minutes, take a reading. Then smile for a minute and take another reading while still smiling. Do you notice a difference?
7. Smiling Releases Endorphins, Natural Pain Killers and Serotonin
Studies have shown that smiling releases endorphins, natural pain killers, and serotonin. Together these three make us feel good. Smiling is a natural drug.
8. Smiling Lifts the Face and Makes You Look Younger
The muscles we use to smile lift the face, making a person appear younger. Don't go for a face lift, just try smiling your way through the day -- you'll look younger and feel better.


9. Smiling Makes You Seem Successful
Smiling people appear more confident, are more likely to be promoted, and more likely to be approached. Put on a smile at meetings and appointments and people will react to you differently.
10. Smiling Helps You Stay Positive
Try this test: Smile. Now try to think of something negative without losing the smile. It's hard. When we smile our body is sending the rest of us a message that "Life is Good!" Stay away from depression, stress and worry by smiling.

Happiness Maishani

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.


The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've every had.


It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back!



Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.



Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.




There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!


Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.





May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy.


Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.





Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.


The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.


Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

How do I make him love me?

Q:

I have a big crush on this guy in a grade higher than me. We don't have any classes together but we are both in band and on the school paper. I know I love him because I just can't get him off of my mind. At a party I confessed my true feelings and he told me he liked me too - as a friend. He said he just wanted us to be friends right now. I really, really want to be with him, how do I make him love me?

A:

You are suffering from a killer one-sided crush, also known as "unrequited love", and there really isn't much you can do to change it into a relationship. I'll be blunt. You can not make somebody love you. You can't even make them like you. There are no magic spells or secret tricks that will make a person suddenly feel for you the way you feel for them. Love doesn't work like that (and thank the sweet stars above that it doesn't!). Love, when it is real and returned, is one of the most amazing feelings you will ever experience. Although it is hard to accept that this person doesn't return your feelings, it may help you to know that the pain you now feel will be erased from your heart when you find someone who does love you back.

Now back to the issue at hand, coping with your current crush. Since he has made his feelings for you clear, namely that he wants to be friends, you really only have one choice. You have to honor his feelings and wishes. You do however have options as to exactly how you handle the "friendship situation". You can swallow your feelings, move on and work on having "just a friendship" with this guy or, you can harbour your feelings and hope that the future will see your friendship turn romantic. Either way, the one thing you should do is actively take him up on his offer of friendship in spite of your deeper feelings.

Take heart, all is not lost! Friendship is always a good place to start. Right now he only knows a "one dimensional" you, as your friendship progresses he will come to see your many sides. With time, his feelings may even deepen into romatic interest. You say that the two of you are not in any classes together so it is entirely possible that his "Let's be friends!" comment is not a mere brush off, but a bonafide offer. He may want to start as friends because he doesn't know you well enough to have any deeper feelings (a sign that he is a good guy BTW), or he may be using the "friendship line" as a brush off (a sign that he is NOT a good guy BTW). You can't be certain which of these is true until you make a go of the friendship. Work from the premise that he really wants a friendship with you until he indicates otherwise.

By becoming his friend you get the opportunity let him see a new side of you, and you get to see a new side of him. In getting closer you may even fall into a relationship. Of course, the opposite is also true. As you get to know him better your crush, which is built on a fantasy not a reality, may disappear and you may lose interest in him. There are no guarantees that your feelings will stay the same through your burgeoning friendship. There are also no guarantees that his current feelings will change into love. After you become friends you may end up exactly where you are right now, in a one-sided love affair. But at this point in time, what have you got to lose? At the very least you gain a closer acquaintance and at the most you'll get your man!

Mark Gastineau’s Secret Son

mark gastineau


When I was nine I fell in love with Mark Gastineau.
Shut up. I don’t want to hear it. Yes, he had a mullet. Yes, he turned into a broke, coked-out werewolf living in his sister’s basement. But I still have an autographed picture of him in my bedroom.

Proudly.

However, it is yet another not-so-proud moment for Mark and the Gastineau’s today as it has been revealed that Mark fathered a child with Danish, um, actress and former Flavor Flav lover, Brigette Nielson.

Groan. Some bitches…

Now Gastineau’s daughter Brittny is yapping to anyone who’ll listen about meeting her brother for the first time.

Via The New York Post:

“Brittny told us how she was shocked to discover she has a half-brother named Killian Marcus Gastineau. Brittny said she had heard rumors, but never knew her brother existed until her mother, Lisa, bumped into Nielsen at Ivana Trump’s wedding last April.”

Apparently anyone could have attended Ivana Trump’s wedding.

On an emotional note, Brittny had this to say about her brother.

“Meeting my half-brother for the first time was really very weird and very emotional. The brother I never knew I had — it’s a lot to take in . . . All my life, I’ve always said I wanted a brother. I definitely want us to be close.”

No word from Mark Gastineau as it seems his sister cut off the phone in the basement. (No worries, Mark. You are still mah’ boo).

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