Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Reasons Why I Love You Maishani





Picture this: You are giving a bouquet of gorgeous roses to your beloved. You expect a generous hug, a peck on the cheek, or at least a warm "thank you". Instead you are asked, "Why do you love me?" It clearly indicates that the person you love wants you to sweep them off their feet with obviously genuine and meaningful flattering words. However, we agree that sometimes it becomes difficult to answer these spur of the moment questions even though you are in deep love with her. This question demands an intelligent answer that is more based on her attributes and gestures rather physical. For these momental questions, we, at Iloveindia, bring you some momentary answers that will make you stand out among the rest. This can even be ideal for gifting on your special occasions. So go ahead and choose your best answer from the list given below to answer this often asked question.

Why I Love You So Much



I can be myself when I am with you
Every time I look at you, my heart misses a beat
Love is, what you mean to me - and you mean everything.
I like your small gestures that speak volumes about how much you care
The fact that you are without a doubt my true soul mate
The fact that you are the first and only person I’ve ever loved and the first person who ever truly loved me.
The amazing way you always seem to be able to read my mind
You bring out the best in me.
Just a sight of you lifts my up spirits.
You have taught me what it is to love and be loved.
I can be clumsy and foolish when I am with you, yet know that your love for me will never diminish.
Your smile is enough to make a dull day seem bright as sun.
Being in your arms makes me feel like I can never be lost again.
I have had the time of my life and I owe it all to you
We can talk about everything or nothing--it's always okay with you
When you listen, I know you're really listening and not just waiting for your turn to talk
I can feel your love, in the warmth of your touch, 'cause it touches my heart and soul
You always know just how to spoil me.
When we're together, time just comes to a halt.
Your loving gaze is enough to carry me through a long day.
You're the one who makes happiness happen.
Because of you, no matter what may come tomorrow, today my life is more complete.
I want to stay forever with you.
I just can't imagine being me without you.
Just a touch...and I lose my heart all over again.
Whenever I need it most you're there with your all-purpose hugs.
Ever since you have come into my life, I yearn to come back home and see your lovely smile.
Your innocence makes me forget all shady things of this world.
I love the way you get angry whenever I am late; yet wait for me for as long as it takes.
You have given meaning to my existence.
You are the only one who can make me smile even in my deepest sorrows.
I respect the faith you have in me and love you for it.
I get lost in the depth of your mysterious eyes.
You always make me feel that you are by my side no matter what
The way that you always look for and find the positive in everything

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Lyrics to You Don't Love Me


Lies
pile on top of more lies
lookin me dead in my eyes
talkin bout
baby its only you
why dont you trust me?

a disguise
cus thats all it was a disguise
took me a minute to find out
but now i finally see
i finally realized

you dont love me
oh oh oh oh
and it dont matter what you say
you dont love me
oh oh oh oh
cus love dont do you that way

you dont love me
dont try to hide it
you dont love me
you cant deny it
you dont love me
so theres no reason to stay
cus you dont love me

no
all you tell me is no
if i ask you the reason
i dont kno this lip stick
is it cus its from another girl?

oh no baby i dont kno
baby i really dont kno
what it is that kept me holdin on
i was all in another world
now i realize

you dont love me
oh oh oh oh
and it dont matter what you say
you dont love me
oh oh oh oh
cus love dont do you that way

you dont love me
dont try to hide it
you dont love me
you cant deny it
you dont love me
so theres no reason to stay
cus you dont love me

right now i feel so
good about myself
got over you
now im good with anything else

and baby there'll be no more waitin for u
wonderin wat u gon do
i'm gon be just fine by myself
and baby there'll be no more cryin at night
dont worry im alright
im just fine with knowin
you dont love me

We love each other, but then we know where not right for each other.?




Resolved Question


We love each other, but then we know where not right for each other.?
But know body wants to be the first to quit in this marriage. What to do? I could handle it if he just disappeared, but he has know where to go really. I know he loves me, but doesn't love me the way I want to be loved.




What to do? I'm not leaving, I can afford to pay where I stay. But I dont want to quit, but feel, we should cause there os someone out there I could be missing out on. How do I handle this?



Hi Vanessa,

Sometime back I was going through the same phase. I felt that I love him and he loves me too but it somehow didnt seem good enough. I guess that's how it is in any marriage, after few years, no matter how much you love your partner and no matter how much they love you back, it never seems 'good enough'. That's human nature. We need to feel the rush of something new, something exciting and no matter how wonderful our partner or marriage may be, it tends to become mundane, ordinary and boring. There is no fun anymore, no matter how much we try. I can understand it.

Even if you would find a new guy, it wud be the same with him for few weeks, months or even years and after a while, you will feel he aint loving you enough.

Vanessa, you will keep looking for that perfect love in life but you may never find it because the idea of the perfect man who would understand us, know every feeling, every sensation we experience, love us JUST the way we want, doesnt exist! Afterall, they are humans too.

In a relationship, when we are in love, we are able to sense each other feelings and emotions. Due to distances, that connection seems to fade away. It is upto you and your husband to keep the connection alive.

Simply marrying the man you love will not make him a perfect lover. Any r'ship needs to be nurtured, like a plant, on an everyday basis. Help it grow, nourish it, so you may enjoy its fruits.

Secondly, you need to find ways to love yourself first. Find Satisfaction within and you will be content in all situations. (unless there is something really terrribly wrong). Be creative, do something for yourself, like take a trip down (anywhere), spend a week, explore, have a open mind, enjoy and when you are back rejuvenated, full of life, you will realize you will be able to give so much to this relationship.

Any man unless he is insecure loves a woman that is self assured and not needy. Love needs to happen between two people, you can't force anyone to love you in a certain way. Everyone finds their own rhythm, their own way to express their feelings and that's what makes it unique.