How girls find a good lover - how to select your husband / lover / partner for life ??

Many points have already been published and are valid for both
girls searching a man for life
men searching for a lover girl for eternity

girls have to be picky
to be pregnant from the wrong one feels and is like a disaster lasting years or a lifetime !!
men as well are tricky and hide their ego and weakness behind walls of tricks and silly ego-games

when you see the one you find attractive
test his true love FIRST
look what he is doing FOR others
look how he is treating OTHERS - foreigners to him
look how much he cares FOR any other person, culture, country or all creation
is what he has the gift of his father / mother / others or the result of his own productive work - his own creation from scratch or a mere disguise/repacking of other people's hard work ??
how much of his income does he spend for HIS lifestyle and how little / much does he spend for the wellbeing of OTHERS

a truly loving husband always has a VERY substantial share of love, resources, time, work and money FOR others in his heart

a man however who only carries credit cards or ATM cards obviously is used to seldom or never spontaneously share or help

a man spending substantial amounts for his lifestyle, cloths, car, gadgets, vacation, etc has little left to truly love and help OTHERS

a man who bargains ab out price
a man who just "gets by" in life tries to get the maximum benefit FROM others for the least effort from his part - hence he is STINGY in all aspects of life - toward you, his children and all his loved ones as well

such men are poor lovers and may never satisfy your need and hunger for true sincere divine love

look what a man HAS already achieved in life
did or does he work with his body, mind and hands
or does he let others do the dirty work

does he reuse or modify products or services MADE BY OTHERS or does he create from scratch all his own work ??
is he merely a RE-seller or re-packer of other people's services or products
or does he really do, invent and create out of his very own useful services and products ??

chose the one whose life is mainly the product of his very own efforts
a man free from his parents
a man free from other people's influence
a man strong enough to DO what FEELS right even if all society or culture may think differently
a man who is can can be loyal to HIS heart rather than loyal to his employer, bank and income
a man who loves to love and is ready to sacrifice a higher salary for a more loving, harder, dirtier or more useful job

a man who fears never can make happy
a man who fears never can carry you home to God
a man who follows orders rather than being his own boss is a weak slave of stronger ones and thus a poor lover

a man who wants to possess you
a man who wants to marry you
...
is a man with a weak love - hence he wants to attache you by legal means rather than attract you by the power of his true love

a truly loving man is the one whose aura makes you feel GOOD
an aura that you can actually FEEL whenever you are within the same house or room
an aura that gives you the feeling of security, coziness, being loved,
an aura that makes you feel comfortable being who you are - a female girl
an aura that satisfies your needs of true love by making you relaxed, happy and gives you the "butterflies" all over - inside and outside - to FEEL loved by him

be demanding and never accept any excuses nor any "later"
a man always has to prove love from the very first seconds and minutes
be ready to test his love be ready to love be ready to BE loved
instantly and fully

a man who wants to use condom or any similar method of "contraception" rejects any possibility to FALL in love - and postpones any serious decision of his mind AND heart to a later time ... later may be a few years, decades or after death!!
the right one is ready for TRUE and FULL love at once from the very first second
love at first glance from he bottom of HIS heart
to the center of YOUR heart ...

and what about YOUR heart-decision ?? NOW or later or never ?? if love is what you want
then love is what you need to accept AND GIVE as well
from the first seconds of course
ALL or NOTHING at all
NOW or never
!!!

everything else is but a waste of time
a waste of time means a waste of fun-time
a waste of time also means a waste of resources of many kind

we all have but ONE life to live, to love, to enjoy and to have fun
HERE and NOW
and that ONE life may last eternally and thus far beyond this physical lifetime

a day without true love
a day at the side of a wrong one - man or girl
ALWAYS is a WASTED day

Unless you love yourself you cannot love anybody

Unless you love yourself you cannot love anybody, it is impossible, because a man who is not in love with himself cannot be in love with anybody. If you are in love with yourself, only then can your overflowing love reach somebody.

A man who has not loved himself will hate himself, and if you yourself hate yourself, how can you love anybody? You will hate others also. You can only pretend. And when you cannot love yourself, how do you expect others to love you? Everyone is condemned in his own eyes. The whole moralistic teaching gives you only one thing: techniques of self condemnation -- how to condemn yourself, how you are bad, a criminal, guilty, a sinner.

Christianity says that your being a sinner is not a question of what you do/ you are born a sinner. It is not a question of whether you do some sin or not; no, you are a born sinner. Man is born in sin. Adam, the first man, committed the sin, and you are descendants. The sin has been committed, nothing can be done. Now it cannot be undone, and you are born into sin -- Adam's sin.

If you are born in sin, how can you love yourself? If your very being is guilt, how can you love yourself? And if you cannot love yourself, you cannot love anybody. The love must happen at home first -- you are the home -- and only when it overflows can it reach to others. And when it overflows, it overflows into your acts, into whatsoever you do. Whether you paint or make a shoe or anything -- just cleaning the street -- whatsoever you do, if you are in deep love, if you are in deep love with yourself, it flows into everything you do. It flows even when you are not doing anything. It goes on flowing, it becomes your very existence, and then nothing is boring.

Mwana Mfalme William kuoa

William, ambaye ni mrithi wa pili wa kiti cha ufalme, atafunga ndoa mwakani, katika mwaka ambao ungeadhimisha miaka 30 ya ndoa ya wazazi wake.

Wawili hao waliweka ahadi ya uchumba mwezi Oktoba nchini Kenya, wakati wakiwa katika mapumziko.


William na Kate walianza kuwa na mahusiano miaka minane iliyopita, wakati wakisoma katika chuo kikuu cha cha Mtakatifu Andrews huko Fife, ambapo pia waliishi katika nyumba moja.

Ndoa hiyo imetangazwa katika taarifa fupi iliyotolewa na Clarence House.

Taarifa

Taarifa hiyo imesema: "Mwana Mfalme wa Wales, ana furaha ya kutangaza ndoa ya mwanae, Mwana Mfalme William atakayofunga na Bi Catherine Middleton.

"Harusi itafanyika wakati wa majira ya joto ya mwaka 2011, mjini London. Taarifa zaidi kuhusu harusi hiyo zitatangazwa baadaye.

"Mwana Mfalme William amemfahamisha Malkia na ndugu wengine wa karibu.




"Mwana Mfalme William pia ameomba ruhusa kutoka kwa baba wa Bi Kate.

"Baada ya kufunga ndoa, wawili hao wataishi kaskazini mwa Wales, ambapo Mwana Mfalme William ataendelea na kazi katika jeshi la Anga la Uingereza Royal Air Force."

Top 10 Reasons to Smile

1. Smiling Makes Us Attractive
We are drawn to people who smile. There is an attraction factor. We want to know a smiling person and figure out what is so good. Frowns, scowls and grimaces all push people away -- but a smile draws them in (avoid these smile aging habits to keep your smile looking great).



2. Smiling Changes Our Mood
Next time you are feeling down, try putting on a smile. There's a good chance you mood will change for the better. Smiling can trick the body into helping you change your mood.
3. Smiling Is Contagious
When someone is smiling they lighten up the room, change the moods of others, and make things happier. A smiling person brings happiness with them. Smile lots and you will draw people to you.
4. Smiling Relieves Stress
Stress can really show up in our faces. Smiling helps to prevent us from looking tired, worn down, and overwhelmed. When you are stressed, take time to put on a smile. The stress should be reduced and you'll be better able to take action.
5. Smiling Boosts Your Immune System
Smiling helps the immune system to work better. When you smile, immune function improves possibly because you are more relaxed. Prevent the flu and colds by smiling.
6. Smiling Lowers Your Blood Pressure
When you smile, there is a measurable reduction in your blood pressure. Give it a try if you have a blood pressure monitor at home. Sit for a few minutes, take a reading. Then smile for a minute and take another reading while still smiling. Do you notice a difference?
7. Smiling Releases Endorphins, Natural Pain Killers and Serotonin
Studies have shown that smiling releases endorphins, natural pain killers, and serotonin. Together these three make us feel good. Smiling is a natural drug.
8. Smiling Lifts the Face and Makes You Look Younger
The muscles we use to smile lift the face, making a person appear younger. Don't go for a face lift, just try smiling your way through the day -- you'll look younger and feel better.


9. Smiling Makes You Seem Successful
Smiling people appear more confident, are more likely to be promoted, and more likely to be approached. Put on a smile at meetings and appointments and people will react to you differently.
10. Smiling Helps You Stay Positive
Try this test: Smile. Now try to think of something negative without losing the smile. It's hard. When we smile our body is sending the rest of us a message that "Life is Good!" Stay away from depression, stress and worry by smiling.

Happiness Maishani

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.


The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've every had.


It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back!



Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.



Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.




There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!


Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.





May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy.


Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.





Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.


The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.


Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

How do I make him love me?

Q:

I have a big crush on this guy in a grade higher than me. We don't have any classes together but we are both in band and on the school paper. I know I love him because I just can't get him off of my mind. At a party I confessed my true feelings and he told me he liked me too - as a friend. He said he just wanted us to be friends right now. I really, really want to be with him, how do I make him love me?

A:

You are suffering from a killer one-sided crush, also known as "unrequited love", and there really isn't much you can do to change it into a relationship. I'll be blunt. You can not make somebody love you. You can't even make them like you. There are no magic spells or secret tricks that will make a person suddenly feel for you the way you feel for them. Love doesn't work like that (and thank the sweet stars above that it doesn't!). Love, when it is real and returned, is one of the most amazing feelings you will ever experience. Although it is hard to accept that this person doesn't return your feelings, it may help you to know that the pain you now feel will be erased from your heart when you find someone who does love you back.

Now back to the issue at hand, coping with your current crush. Since he has made his feelings for you clear, namely that he wants to be friends, you really only have one choice. You have to honor his feelings and wishes. You do however have options as to exactly how you handle the "friendship situation". You can swallow your feelings, move on and work on having "just a friendship" with this guy or, you can harbour your feelings and hope that the future will see your friendship turn romantic. Either way, the one thing you should do is actively take him up on his offer of friendship in spite of your deeper feelings.

Take heart, all is not lost! Friendship is always a good place to start. Right now he only knows a "one dimensional" you, as your friendship progresses he will come to see your many sides. With time, his feelings may even deepen into romatic interest. You say that the two of you are not in any classes together so it is entirely possible that his "Let's be friends!" comment is not a mere brush off, but a bonafide offer. He may want to start as friends because he doesn't know you well enough to have any deeper feelings (a sign that he is a good guy BTW), or he may be using the "friendship line" as a brush off (a sign that he is NOT a good guy BTW). You can't be certain which of these is true until you make a go of the friendship. Work from the premise that he really wants a friendship with you until he indicates otherwise.

By becoming his friend you get the opportunity let him see a new side of you, and you get to see a new side of him. In getting closer you may even fall into a relationship. Of course, the opposite is also true. As you get to know him better your crush, which is built on a fantasy not a reality, may disappear and you may lose interest in him. There are no guarantees that your feelings will stay the same through your burgeoning friendship. There are also no guarantees that his current feelings will change into love. After you become friends you may end up exactly where you are right now, in a one-sided love affair. But at this point in time, what have you got to lose? At the very least you gain a closer acquaintance and at the most you'll get your man!

Mark Gastineau’s Secret Son

mark gastineau


When I was nine I fell in love with Mark Gastineau.
Shut up. I don’t want to hear it. Yes, he had a mullet. Yes, he turned into a broke, coked-out werewolf living in his sister’s basement. But I still have an autographed picture of him in my bedroom.

Proudly.

However, it is yet another not-so-proud moment for Mark and the Gastineau’s today as it has been revealed that Mark fathered a child with Danish, um, actress and former Flavor Flav lover, Brigette Nielson.

Groan. Some bitches…

Now Gastineau’s daughter Brittny is yapping to anyone who’ll listen about meeting her brother for the first time.

Via The New York Post:

“Brittny told us how she was shocked to discover she has a half-brother named Killian Marcus Gastineau. Brittny said she had heard rumors, but never knew her brother existed until her mother, Lisa, bumped into Nielsen at Ivana Trump’s wedding last April.”

Apparently anyone could have attended Ivana Trump’s wedding.

On an emotional note, Brittny had this to say about her brother.

“Meeting my half-brother for the first time was really very weird and very emotional. The brother I never knew I had — it’s a lot to take in . . . All my life, I’ve always said I wanted a brother. I definitely want us to be close.”

No word from Mark Gastineau as it seems his sister cut off the phone in the basement. (No worries, Mark. You are still mah’ boo).

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How To Learn From Your Mistakes

One of the best ways to relieve stress is to learn from your mistakes. Unfortunately, it’s difficult to find the balance between seeing too many things as someone else’s fault and seeing too many things as your fault. And in both cases, rumination can take root and cause too much stress. But how can you learn from your mistakes if you don’t realize when you’ve made one?
There’s no easy answer on how to learn from your mistakes that will work every time, though chapters have been written about it in classic books like The Road Less Traveled, and opportunities to address the topic have been missed in others, like The Four Agreements. However, there are some strategies you can use to learn from your mistakes that will work in various situations most of the time. When you’re trying to learn from your mistakes, consider the following:


Reframe Your Mistakes
First, use reframing to stop thinking of your mistakes as failures. They can be more accurately described as opportunities for learning—people generally learn more from mistakes than they learn from successes. With each mistake, you can learn valuable information that can be used for future success.

Be Forgiving
Next, maintain perspective and don’t take mistakes too seriously. Blaming others for our mistakes can be a defense mechanism for those who are harsh with ourselves when we mess up—we stay in denial because we can’t take our own harsh self-condemnation. Be forgiving. Just changing your outlook on this can make it less threatening to recognize when you’re responsible or partially responsible for things going other than you’d planned. And that makes you more able to learn from your mistakes.





See What You Can Change
Rather than thinking of who is more responsible for a situation—you or another person—look at the situation as a whole in terms of what you can change. If you view taking responsibility through the lens of personal control—what can you change next time, what do you have control over?—makes it an empowering experience to learn from your mistakes.

Look Beyond
Look at other sides of the same situation. How do different people in the situation feel. How might things have gone differently if you’d made different choices? Look at the situation in different ways. Play with it. And see what you can learn for next time.

Ask Questions
Ask for impartial opinions. Have a few trusted friends who will tell you the truth, and who can see things from both sides, and ask them what they see. Sometimes we’re too close to a situation to make sense of it at first, but an observer who isn’t so emotionally attached, and who can deliver their opinion with love and tact, is what we need to help us learn from our mistakes.

Pat Yourself On The Back
Congratulate yourself for whatever growth you’ve gained from dealing with each difficult situation you encounter and each mistake you make. Remember that these things add value to life as much as the more pleasant experiences we all value. And be glad that you always have the opportunity to learn from your mistakes in one way or another

Do you really, truly love yourself?

“To say 'I love you' one must first be able to say the 'I'.” ---Ayn Rand

Rand touches on a point that is worth exploring. You have to know and love YOU before even trying to love anyone else.


Have you said any of these things to yourself:

“I’m never going to get over this break up.”

“I can’t believe this happened... again.”

“I don’t want to just be friends. I want this person now!”

“I’m sick of playing games. I just want people to be real.”

“Maybe I need to focus on my career right now. Love can wait.”


It’s as if you have tried EVERYTHING to find that one person that loves you, and no matter what you do, you can't find love.

Well, here's a little secret about attraction:


Learning how to love yourself is
the foundation of any love relationship.
If you don't love YOU, you can't love anyone else. Period.






The most important person in your life is you. The person who you love the most in the world should be you! Why not? Who better than you?

"YOU" are the one person you have to spend every waking moment of your life with.

"YOU" are the only person who will be there for you when no one else is.

"YOU" are all you have no matter what.




When you First Love YOU, you will give yourself what you need.

You will become highly attractive to others because you are coming to them out of wholeness, not out of a repulsive neediness.

You will be able to have fulfilling relationships, and you will have no problem ending relationships which don't serve your growth.

The concept is simple, though it isn't easy to learn how to love yourself. It's going to take some hard work. Are you ready for it?



By becoming self-mindful, taking it step-by-step, and developing self-confidence, you can increase your overall happiness in love and life!


All you have to do is FIRST LOVE YOU and everything else will fall into place.

Ajiua Baada ya Video Akilawitiwa Kuwekwa Online

Mwanafunzi wa kiume wa nchini Marekani ambaye marafiki zake walirekodi kwa siri video wakati akiingiliwa kinyume cha maumbile na mwanaume mwenzie na kisha kuiweka video hiyo kwenye internet amejiua kwa kujirusha toka kwenye daraja.
Tyler Clementi, Mwanafunzi wa kiume wa mwaka wa kwanza wa chuo kikuu cha Rutgers University cha nchini Marekani mwenye umri wa miaka 18 ambaye alikuwa akifanya ushoga kwa siri, amejiua mwenyewe kwa kujirusha toka kwenye daraja baada ya video yake akiingiliwa kinyume cha maumbile na mwanaume mwingine kurushwa LIVE kwenye internet.

Clementi alijirusha wiki iliyopita toka kwenye daraja la George Washington na kuangukia kwenye mto mkubwa wa Hudson River, last week, maiti yake ilipatikana juzi kwenye mto huo.

Clementi alichukua uamuzi wa kujiua baada ya kugundua marafiki zake aliokuwa akikaa nao chumba kimoja walimrekodi kwa siri wakati akifanya mapenzi na mwanaume mwingine na VIDEO za tukio hilo zilirushwa LIVE kwenye internet kupitia Webcam.

"Kama angekuwa kitandani na mwanamke, haya yote yasingetokea", alisema mmoja wa wanafunzi wa chuo hicho.

"Kama asingeanikwa LIVE kwenye internet, mambo yake ya ndani yasingeanikwa na leo tungekuwa naye hapa", aliongeza mwanafunzi huyo.

Wanafunzi wawili mmoja wa kiume Dhraun Ravi na mwingine wa kike Molly Wei, ambao wote wana umri wa miaka 18, wamefunguliwa mashtaka ya kuvunja haki za msingi za Clementi.

Mahakama iliambiwa kuwa webcam ilitumika kurusha LIVE tukio la Clementi akiingiliwa na mwanaume mwingine mnamo septemba 19 na Ravi alijaribu kulirusha LIVE tena tukio la pili lililofanyika septemba 21 ambayo ni siku moja kabla ya Clementi kujiua.

Taasisi za kutetea haki za mashoga zimeichachamalia kesi hii zikitaka Ravi na mwenzake wahukumiwe adhabu kali.

Taasisi hizo zimesema kuwa Ravi na mwenzake wameonyesha chuki waliyo nayo kwa mashoga na wasagaji na wameitaka mahakama itoe adhabu kali.

Ravi na mwenzake huenda wakahukumiwa kwenda jela miaka mitano iwapo watapatikana na hatia ya kuingilia undani wa mtu bila ya ridhaa yake

'Mama Yako ni Adui wa Taifa'

Kijana mmoja wa nchini Marekani ambaye alijifanya ni jasusi wa shirika la ujasusi la Marekani la CIA, amehukumiwa kifungo cha maisha baada ya kumshawishi rafiki yake kumuua mama yake mzazi kwakuwa mama yake huyo alikuwa ni hatari kwa taifa.
Corderral Smith kijana mwenye umri wa miaka 22 ambaye alikuwa mwanafunzi aliyefukuzwa shule alipokuwa sekondari, aliwaongopea watu wengi akiwemo mpenzi wake mjamzito kuwa yeye ni jajusi wa CIA na watu wote waliamini kuwa yeye ni jasusi kutokana na hati feki alizokuwa akizionyesha.

Smith kwa kutumia staili zake za ulaghai alifanikiwa kumshawishi rafiki yake Jason Rizzi, 20 aliyefahamiana naye kupitia mtandao wa MySpace amuue mama yake mzazi mwenye umri wa miaka 50, Gloria Ryan baada ya kumuambia kuwa mama yake huyo ni "Mtu hatari sana kwa usalama wa taifa na hafai kuwa karibu na mtu yoyote".

Smith alimuahidi Rizzi kuwa iwapo atalilinda taifa kwa kumuua mama yake mzazi atachukuliwa na CIA kama askari kanzu.

Rizzi aliamini maneno aliyoambiwa kwasababu mama yake alikuwa akijua mambo mengi ya serikali. Rizzi alimuua mama yake akiamini anaifanyia kazi serikali.

Hata baada ya kukamatwa kwa kumuua mama yake kwa kumpiga risasi, Rizzi aliendelea kuamini kuwa Smith alikuwa ni jasusi wa CIA.

"Hivi mna uhakika kuwa Smith sio jasusi?", aliuliza Rizzi alipotiwa mbaroni mjini Cleveland, Texas.

Mbali ya kujifanya kuwa yeye ni jasusi, Smith pia alijifanya kuwa yeye ni promota mkubwa wa wasanii wa Hip Hop akionyesha picha mbalimbali akiwa amekaa mbele ya silaha mbalimbali zilizotundikwa ukutani.

Mahakama iliambiwa kuwa mpenzi wa Smith ambaye ni mjamzito pamoja na watu wengine waliamini kuwa Smith ni jasusi kwani mara kadhaa alikuwa akitoa nyaraka feki zilizofanana na nyaraka za kweli za CIA.

Lakini mahakama iliambiwa kuwa Smith hakuwa jasusi bali kibarua katika kampuni za ujenzi.

Smith ambaye alikuwa akitambulisha kama CJ Shaw alikanusha kuhusika na mauaji ya mama yake Rizizi lakini alihukumiwa kwenda jela maisha.

Rizzi atasomewa hukumu yake mwezi ujao

Uchungu wa Mwana..

Mama mmoja nchini Israel amenusurika kufariki baada ya kujirusha toka ghorofa ya nne baada ya kuona watoto wake wawili wamejirusha chini kupitia dirishani.
Mama mmoja mwenye umri wa miaka 38 mkazi wa mji wa Tel Aviv nchini Israel, amenusurika kufariki baada ya kujirusha toka kwenye ghorofa ya nne.

Mama huyo alichukua uamuzi huo wa haraka baada ya kuona watoto wake wawili wamejirusha chini kupitia dirishani toka kwenye nyumba yao iliyopo ghorofa ya nne.

Mama huyo aliamua kutumia dirisha hilo hilo kujiua mwenyewe kwa kujirusha hadi chini.

Bahati nzuri kwao, mama na watoto wake wote wawili walinusurika maisha yao ingawa wamevunjika vunjika viungo vingi vya miili yao.

Mtoto mmoja alikuwa wa kike mwenye umri wa miaka 7 wakati mtoto wake wa pili alikuwa wa kiume mwenye umri wa miaka 5.

Hali ya mtoto wa kike inaendelea vizuri lakini hali ya mtoto wa kiume si ya kuridhisha.

Baada ya kufikishwa hospitali mama wa watoto hao alipoulizwa sababu ya kujirusha toka ghorofa ya nne alisema kuwa alifikiria watoto wake ndio wameishafariki hivyo na yeye aliamua kujiua.

Reasons Why I Love You Maishani

Picture this: You are giving a bouquet of gorgeous roses to your beloved. You expect a generous hug, a peck on the cheek, or at least a warm "thank you". Instead you are asked, "Why do you love me?" It clearly indicates that the person you love wants you to sweep them off their feet with obviously genuine and meaningful flattering words. However, we agree that sometimes it becomes difficult to answer these spur of the moment questions even though you are in deep love with her. This question demands an intelligent answer that is more based on her attributes and gestures rather physical. For these momental questions, we, at Iloveindia, bring you some momentary answers that will make you stand out among the rest. This can even be ideal for gifting on your special occasions. So go ahead and choose your best answer from the list given below to answer this often asked question.

Why I Love You So Much



I can be myself when I am with you
Every time I look at you, my heart misses a beat
Love is, what you mean to me - and you mean everything.
I like your small gestures that speak volumes about how much you care
The fact that you are without a doubt my true soul mate
The fact that you are the first and only person I’ve ever loved and the first person who ever truly loved me.
The amazing way you always seem to be able to read my mind
You bring out the best in me.
Just a sight of you lifts my up spirits.
You have taught me what it is to love and be loved.
I can be clumsy and foolish when I am with you, yet know that your love for me will never diminish.
Your smile is enough to make a dull day seem bright as sun.
Being in your arms makes me feel like I can never be lost again.
I have had the time of my life and I owe it all to you
We can talk about everything or nothing--it's always okay with you
When you listen, I know you're really listening and not just waiting for your turn to talk
I can feel your love, in the warmth of your touch, 'cause it touches my heart and soul
You always know just how to spoil me.
When we're together, time just comes to a halt.
Your loving gaze is enough to carry me through a long day.
You're the one who makes happiness happen.
Because of you, no matter what may come tomorrow, today my life is more complete.
I want to stay forever with you.
I just can't imagine being me without you.
Just a touch...and I lose my heart all over again.
Whenever I need it most you're there with your all-purpose hugs.
Ever since you have come into my life, I yearn to come back home and see your lovely smile.
Your innocence makes me forget all shady things of this world.
I love the way you get angry whenever I am late; yet wait for me for as long as it takes.
You have given meaning to my existence.
You are the only one who can make me smile even in my deepest sorrows.
I respect the faith you have in me and love you for it.
I get lost in the depth of your mysterious eyes.
You always make me feel that you are by my side no matter what
The way that you always look for and find the positive in everything

Lyrics to You Don't Love Me

Lies
pile on top of more lies
lookin me dead in my eyes
talkin bout
baby its only you
why dont you trust me?

a disguise
cus thats all it was a disguise
took me a minute to find out
but now i finally see
i finally realized

you dont love me
oh oh oh oh
and it dont matter what you say
you dont love me
oh oh oh oh
cus love dont do you that way

you dont love me
dont try to hide it
you dont love me
you cant deny it
you dont love me
so theres no reason to stay
cus you dont love me

no
all you tell me is no
if i ask you the reason
i dont kno this lip stick
is it cus its from another girl?

oh no baby i dont kno
baby i really dont kno
what it is that kept me holdin on
i was all in another world
now i realize

you dont love me
oh oh oh oh
and it dont matter what you say
you dont love me
oh oh oh oh
cus love dont do you that way

you dont love me
dont try to hide it
you dont love me
you cant deny it
you dont love me
so theres no reason to stay
cus you dont love me

right now i feel so
good about myself
got over you
now im good with anything else

and baby there'll be no more waitin for u
wonderin wat u gon do
i'm gon be just fine by myself
and baby there'll be no more cryin at night
dont worry im alright
im just fine with knowin
you dont love me

We love each other, but then we know where not right for each other.?

Resolved Question


We love each other, but then we know where not right for each other.?
But know body wants to be the first to quit in this marriage. What to do? I could handle it if he just disappeared, but he has know where to go really. I know he loves me, but doesn't love me the way I want to be loved.




What to do? I'm not leaving, I can afford to pay where I stay. But I dont want to quit, but feel, we should cause there os someone out there I could be missing out on. How do I handle this?



Hi Vanessa,

Sometime back I was going through the same phase. I felt that I love him and he loves me too but it somehow didnt seem good enough. I guess that's how it is in any marriage, after few years, no matter how much you love your partner and no matter how much they love you back, it never seems 'good enough'. That's human nature. We need to feel the rush of something new, something exciting and no matter how wonderful our partner or marriage may be, it tends to become mundane, ordinary and boring. There is no fun anymore, no matter how much we try. I can understand it.

Even if you would find a new guy, it wud be the same with him for few weeks, months or even years and after a while, you will feel he aint loving you enough.

Vanessa, you will keep looking for that perfect love in life but you may never find it because the idea of the perfect man who would understand us, know every feeling, every sensation we experience, love us JUST the way we want, doesnt exist! Afterall, they are humans too.

In a relationship, when we are in love, we are able to sense each other feelings and emotions. Due to distances, that connection seems to fade away. It is upto you and your husband to keep the connection alive.

Simply marrying the man you love will not make him a perfect lover. Any r'ship needs to be nurtured, like a plant, on an everyday basis. Help it grow, nourish it, so you may enjoy its fruits.

Secondly, you need to find ways to love yourself first. Find Satisfaction within and you will be content in all situations. (unless there is something really terrribly wrong). Be creative, do something for yourself, like take a trip down (anywhere), spend a week, explore, have a open mind, enjoy and when you are back rejuvenated, full of life, you will realize you will be able to give so much to this relationship.

Any man unless he is insecure loves a woman that is self assured and not needy. Love needs to happen between two people, you can't force anyone to love you in a certain way. Everyone finds their own rhythm, their own way to express their feelings and that's what makes it unique.